Most people live their life hoping not doing.  Many people hope they can win the lottery, hope they can get a raise in their jobk, hope they can find a good partner, blah blah blah.  Now I’m not saying I’m any different, I do this to.  It’s so easy to hope that luck or chance will line up and everything will work out.  yet in real life that very rare.  In fact most people who get what they want in life generally make it happen.  They don’t hope they do.